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Finding Family, Finding Myself

In October of 2009 I wrote a post lamenting my lack of sisters.  Back then, I had no hope of finding the three older sisters who had been lost to me for most of my life.  I knew that I had sisters somewhere, but missed having sisters. 

Recently, I realized that I’m not getting any younger, and at the top of my bucket list was seeing my sisters again. It had been more than 50 years since we had been together.  Thanks to the internet and some very kind cousins, my dream came true and last night I spent hours on the phone in a 3-way call with my two remaining sisters.  Sadly, Lana, the oldest sister has passed away. The three of us had so much to say, rehashed so many old memories, tried to clear up some long-standing mysteries.  We have lots more to talk about.

The catalyst for my reunion with my family was a query I posted on Gen.forum.  There are forums for hundreds of surnames there, and I found the forum for my grandmother’s maiden name and asked about her.  One of my distant cousins saw my query, and emailed me, telling me that she could get me in touch with my family.  The rest is history.  I’ve reconnected with my very large Hawaiian ohana.  My children and grandchildren now have roots. 

Once I started getting names I began typing them in to the search box on Facebook.  I found so many of my cousins that way.  Facebook was responsible for getting me connected with my niece, who in turn helped me contact her mother, my sister. 

Next on the bucket list is a family reunion in Hawaii.  I want my kids to go and meet their Hawaiian relatives.

For now, I’m so grateful to be getting to know my sisters, Julie and Patricia. 

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